I saw a quote today that said, "The higher you elevate your woman, the less available she is to other men. When you break her down, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better."
Let's focus on our own! So many women wait for their men to meet their needs but they're busy meeting other women's needs to be listened to AND heard, understood, cherished and respected. And when you think about it, a lot of those women he is meeting the needs of have men who stopped trying or just straight up don't care.
Let's stop this chain of stupidity. Do you really wanna be with and keep the person you have? Then learn them. Know what they need and do your best to meet those needs. You wouldn't volunteer at your animal shelter if you had a 'cherished' pet sitting in a crate at home starving for love and attention. Don't do the same to your person. The world would be robbed of so much drama and heartache if we just focused on our own instead of keeping our options open.
You won't harvest crops in your own field if you're so interested in volunteering to work another man's field that you forget your own field exists until it comes time for harvest and you never planted any f***ing seeds cause you were so busy throwing seeds over the fence into other fields.
